3 Ways to Connect with the Kids in your Life

Every one of us has been a child. And as children, we all know there are two kinds of adults: the cool ones who get it, who knows how to talk, play, imagine, and explore like a kid; and there are, well, the rest of them...the excruciatingly boring ones, the ones who terrify us into swearing, cross our hearts, that we'll never turn into that kind of grown-up...the kind that sent Peter Pan hightailing it for Neverland as fast as Tinkerbell could take him.

You may be an adult now, one who pays bills and takes vitamins and reads about the things politicians say, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have high-quality, meaningful interactions with the kids in your life, whether they’re your own or simply the kids next door. Here are three places to start:

Ask different questions

Kids are great at one-word answers to typical daily questions like "How was your day? Did you learn anything cool in school today?" So, conversations are usually stunted. Especially when every kid gets the same two questions when they see adults who are not their parents. "How old are you now?" and "How's school?"

So here are some great conversation starters to ask:

What do you want to do today?

What animal would you be? Why?

If you could put frosting on any food in the world what would it be?

Who would you rather trade places with? Mommy or Daddy?

If someone wrote an article about you in your school’s newspaper, what would you want them to say?

Exercise together

We can use the word 'exercise' loosely here. The key is to move around, get the endorphins flowing, and have fun.

Play your favorite dance song, and let them choose one, also. Go to the local school track and race...give them a headstart, of course. Bust out some old-school jumping jacks or a jump rope. Even 5 minutes is enough to get the blood pumping and some giggles happening.

Massage each other

Massage does not have to be a big complex endeavor. It can be quick and easy, and you can do it just about anywhere. Practice massaging on each other. Try incorporating stories to make it even more fun. This type of anywhere, anytime massage is especially great for kids with anxiety. Try it at bedtime, or in the morning before school, or even in the waiting room at the dentist.

There you have it! 3 ways to be the cool guy/gal in your favorite kid’s life!


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